iKhaya LikaBaba - The Father's House

This is the blog of my personal journey of setting up iKhaya LikaBaba - non profit organisation, transition home for orphaned and abandoned babies in Empangeni, KwaZulu Natal,South Africa, Africa and beyond. The word states that faith is made perfect in action and so by setting up this blog I am hoping that this will be the faith in action of this place coming into existence.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

The Clarity of Statistics

One of my favourite bloggers is Zach Nielsen(http://www.takeyourvitaminz.blogspot.com) and of course he has a whole lot of fellow bloggers that he follows. This is an excerpt of an excerpt written by Jason Kovacs but I think is just so relevant. Statistics have a way of exposing the perception that "all is ok" and that "there really isn't a problem". Clearly there is a problem and we need to be asking, how can we be part of the solution.

These are the most recent and reliable statistics on the global orphan situation.

  • The most recent estimate is that there are approximately 145 million orphans in the world (UNICEF 2008). For this number, an orphan is defined as a child who has lost one or both parents.
  • More than 15 million children have lost one or both parents to AIDS, over 11.6 million of whom live in sub-Saharan Africa.
  • In 2007 67.5 million Children in South Asia and East Asia had lost one or both parents due to all causes.
  • Included in the 2008 estimate of 145 million orphans are more than 92 million that have a surviving mother—-with whom they most likely live.
  • Another 38 million have a surviving father.
  • Approximately 15 million children are “double” orphans—growing up without either mother or father. That’s about ten percent of the whole 145 million.
  • The UNICEF orphan numbers (145 million) are only for deceased parents. If you were to factor in single parents in general, we’d be talking a number many times higher.
  • The UNICEF orphan numbers DON’T include abandonment (millions of children) as well as sold and/or trafficked children. Are the millions of kids abandoned in China not orphans?
  • The UNICEF orphan numbers DON’T include many non-reporting nations (namely, Middle Eastern Islamic nations) where shame and divorce abandonment are rampant. 200,000 + orphans in Iraq, for instance, are not part of the count.
  • I think we’re looking at a number quite higher than 15 million “double orphans.” We often communicate that the real number of kids that fall into our care categories is somewhere around 40 or 50 million.
  • According to data released in 2003 as many as eight million boys and girls around the world live in institutional care. Some studies have found that violence in residential institutions is six times higher than violence in foster care, and that children in group care are almost four times more likely to experience sexual abuse than children in family based care.
  • As of 2002 in Europe and Central Asia, over one million children lived in residential institutions.
  • Worldwide an estimated 300 million children are subjected to violence, exploitation and abuse, including the worst forms of child labour in communities, schools and institutions, during armed conflict, and harmful practices such as female genital mutilation/cutting and child marriage.
  • In the US there are approximately 500,000 children in foster care (Based on data submitted by states as of January 16, 2008)
  • 130,000 of those children in foster care are waiting and available for adoption. Children waiting to be adopted include children with a goal of adoption and/or whose parental rights have been terminated. Children whose parental rights have been terminated, who are 16 years old and older, and who have a goal of emancipation are excluded from the “waiting” population. An individual child is included in the count for each year that he or she has these characteristics on the last day of the year.
  • Approximately 51,000 children are adopted from the foster system each year.
  • That leaves 79,000 children annually in the US needing an adoptive family.
  • Each year, an estimated 20,000 young people “age out” of the U.S. foster care system. Many are only 18 years old and still need support and services. Several foster care alumni studies show that without a lifelong connection to a caring adult, these older youth are often left vulnerable to a host of adverse situations:

Outcomes
Earned a high school diploma 54%
Obtained a Bachelor’s degree or higher 2%
Became a parent 84%
Were unemployed 51%
Had no health insurance 30%
Had been homeless 25%
Were receiving public assistance 30%

Sources: http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cb/stats_research/afcars/trends.htm, http://www.unaids.org/en/KnowledgeCentre/HIVData/GlobalReport/2008/2008_Global_report.asp, http://www.unicef.org/sowc09/docs/SOWC09-FullReport-EN.pdf, Young adults ages 18-24 years old 2.5 to 4 years after leaving foster care: Cook, R. (1992). Are we helping foster care youth prepare for the future? Children and Youth Services Review. 16(3/4), 213-229. Cook, R.; Fleishman, E., & Grimes, V. (1989). A National Evaluation of Title IV-E Foster Care Independent Living Programs for Youth (Phase 2 Final Report, Volume 1). Rockville: Westat, Inc., http://chrisitianallianceblog.org/?p=74, http://abandoned-orphaned.typepad.com/paulmyhill/2009/08/the-count.html

I list these statistics with a broken heart and realization that each number represents a real, living child who is in desperate need of care and a family. We can become easily overwhelmed with these statistics but I pray for my self and for the church that they would lead us to pray more specifically and passionately for them. I pray they will move us to act with greater urgency to see each one of these children cared for in the name of Christ.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

The 2009 Nappy Run is 2 weeks away.

Our annual Nappy Run is only 2 weeks away and counting. This year its happening INSIDE the Inkwazi Boardwalk in Richards Bay, which happens to co-incide with the centre's birthday party which includes a line up of activities and celebrities and of course - US!!!

We will be collecting nappies, wetwipes, groceries and anything else that you would like to contribute to the home. There will be a chance to chat as I would love to meet some of you on the day. Some awesome bikes will be on show on the day and we know this will be a success. If you want to help on the day, get involved or make a donation- don't forget to give me a call or email me.

I hope to see all of you on the 10th October!

Friday, August 21, 2009

Opportunities are knocking

Its that exciting time when we give YOU the OPPORTUNITY to GIVE, BLESS and CARE for those that need your care the most. We have had few requests for our needs list and so here it is. Contact us if you can help.

Urgent

Food: We are in constant need of groceries to feed our children (anywhere from 6-10 toddlers), staff (2 per shift, 24 hrs a day), and volunteers (3-4 each day). We could really use various gift cards or vouchers for local grocery stores, as that is helpful in buying exactly what we need each week for our cook.

Baby Products: We always, always need baby products! Specifically, the following are in high demand at our home – wet wipes, bum cream, baby shampoo, baby bar soap, baby powder, and nappies (sizes 11-17kg and 3-6 kg), and InfaCare 1 & 2 Formula.

Cleaning Supplies: We are in desparate need of general house cleaning products such as toilet paper, paper towels, tissues, garbage bags, all-prupose cleaner, laundry detergent, etc.

Vehicle Maintenance & Repairs: We currently need R10 000.00 to replace a damaged clutch plate on the iKhaya vehicle, due to wear and tear.

Consistent Grocery Needs

Bulk Foods – Weekly:

  • Pasta (5-6 large bags)

  • Long Life Milk (5-6, 1.5 L boxes)

  • InfaCare 1 & 2 Formula (3 tins weekly of each)

  • Coffee (1 large tin)

  • Peanut Butter (1 jar)

  • Eggs (6 dozen)

  • Baked Beans (4-5 cans)

  • Tuna (6 cans)

Fresh Food Needs – Weekly:

  • Frozen Boneless Chicken Breast Fillets (1 bulk pack)

  • Frozen Beef (1 bulk pack)

  • Frozen Ground Beef/Mince (1 bulk pack)

  • Frozen Pork Sausages (1 big bag)

  • Fish Fingers (1 big box bag)

  • Fresh Milk (5-6 packages)

  • Cheese (5 blocks)

  • Yogurt (4 large tubs)

  • Fresh (or Frozen) Veggies – Carrots, Broccoli, Peas, Green Beans, Carrots, Butternut, Sweet Potatoes, Cauliflower, Onions

  • Fresh Fruits – Apples and Bananas

  • Margarine (1 tub)

Household & Baby Product Needs (Details):

Nappies: We are in constant need of both small and large nappies. Any and all nappy donations are much appreciated and will surely be used!

Wet Wipes: We go through wet wipes very fast and we are able to store them easily for future use, so any number of packages are welcome.

Pull-Ups and Training Pants: We need this for our two year old children to start potty training.

Gloves: We need 3-4 boxes of medium and large sterile gloves per week in order to properly maintain hygiene and give proper medical care.

Brooms and Mops (2): monthly, we need two brooms and two mops, one for outside and one for inside in order to keep our home clean and hygienic for the children.

A Food Processor or Puree Machine: We need to be able to easily and quickly mash and puree our fresh foods for our younger children.

15-20 plastic storage bins / Tupperware (with lids): We have a storage unit that is essential for storing our supplies (since our home is currently very small). For organizational purposes it is crucial to have the proper bins to store bulk foods, milk powder, baby clothes/items, and nappies in order to protect them from the elements and keep them clean. Medium sized for the kitchen pantry and extra-large for the storage unit.

Washing Line, Washing Pegs, Washing Powder, StaySoft: We are in need of a second Washing Line to accommodate the large amount of laundry that a full house creates. We need accessories such as washing pegs and StaySoft in order to keep our children's clothes in the best shape.

Salary and Medical Benefits - Funds: Staff Salaries are needing to be increased in order to fully support our wonderful, dedicated, and skilled staff. Currently we are attempting to provide medical insurance for our staff so they do not have to rely on the government for their care.

For more information on iKhaya LikaBaba:

T: +27(0)35.791.110 (o/h) | +27(0)35.772.4557 (a/h) || F: +27(0)86-6779-885

M: +27(0)82.5777.340 | +27(0)79.893.8665

www.ikhaya.org.za | info@ikhaya.org.za NPO 061-441 | PBO 930.002.942.9

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Media, Videos and Updates

If you haven't already, join our Facebook group. We have grown to 550 members already which is amazing. You will receive frequent updates, see some of our most recent photographs and videos.

Also recently we had a young volunteer, Nicole Morgenstern, create some videos for us. She is a remarkable young lady who has been volunteering since the beginning of the year with her family. Have a look at some of the videos that she has created.

On the note of our volunteers, we so appreciate who they are and what they do. Volunteering is often a thankless task as volunteers labour for the sake of the children to change their destinies. No one to pat you on the back and the ones being helped (ie the babies) don't even realise that they are being helped. One day they will look back to this moment in time and know that they were the ones who laid the foundation to this special building which will be there in years to come. Where hundreds of children will one day be helped through their efforts.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Furnishings and Formula

Thank you to all of you that have already helped us furnish the volunteer house. Its slowly taking shape. We are excited about how generous individuals have been in giving to the house.

If you would still like to help, here is an updated list of some of the things that we are still in need of:

1. Curtains, curtains, curtains (though we have a fair number of donations, not even half the house is curtained yet) or working blinds
2. Bins - bread bin, rubbish bins, bathroom bins, laundry bins
3. Buckets, mops, brooms
4. Tables and chairs, lounge suite
5. Mattresses for single beds
6. Pillows, Duvet Inners, blankets
7. Mirrors
8. Desks
9. Books, Puzzles, Games, Table Tennis, Board Games

As you can see, not all are necessities but we really want to turn the house into a home, somewhere the volunteers can relax after a long day, a place to unwind and just to be comfortable. If you have any ideas, let me know.
We also need some volunteers to help us decorate, adjust the curtains, individuals who want to let some of their creativity to flow to make this all happen.

Our volunteers have been helping with AWOL which is an amazing event aimed at teens. They have been doing everything from putting up tents to running soccer clinics. The event is fantastic, definitely the first of its kind in the area. It can only grow from here. Its been a privilege for our volunteers to be involved in an event like this.

Recently we received a donation of milk from Rotary Richards Bay which really has gone out of their way to supply us with formula and nappies. We were really in need and as most of you know, formula is expensive and babies drink LOTS of it. We go through huge amounts of milk - the mind cannot comprehend. Here you can see some of the milk that was donated with one of our volunteers from Senegal - Ibou.

The news is out there, in our Facebook group, our website, our other website, our newsletter and this blog - THE BUILDING HAS STARTED! However there is something new, we have a bill of quantities for the new 21 baby facility. Basically its the breakdown of how much the new house is going to cost piece by piece. For those of you who want to partner with us, have a look at the list and see where you would like to jump in.